A beautiful Night

It is a beautiful Night..with moon and stars in this beautiful sky...OH GOD...thank you for making a beautiful nature..I always wish if I could touch the sky, and during my college days, I had the habit of sitting on the terrace for such a long time and talking to my love for hours by looking at the sky...Njoyed those days..after coming to B'lore, I realized that, if you have to enjoy the beauty of the nature, I need to search in Google and find out time and visit that place...GOD..I never thought technology can spoil the beauty of the nature...Pollution and dirty surroundings..People are not bothered, they are rushing to achieve something..In a metro like Bangalore, it is very difficult to find out a place which is silent and less polluted, where u can breath the fresh air....and if you are stepping into the road, you need to cover your hair and nose and mouth and have to travel like a terrorist..
"If the Stars should appear one night in a thousand years, how would men believe and adore; and preserve for many generations the remembrance of the city of God which had been shown! But every night come out these envoys of beauty, and light the universe with their admonishing smile. ~Ralph Waldo Emerson"... Well Said.. Thank you GOD..for giving me a chance to live in this beautiful world... And enjoy the beauty of this nature!!!!

The Golden Fish...:(

It was a beautiful Golden Fish....very beautiful one...Till last thursday neither I didnt have an interest in observing fishes nor I knew that this golden fish is one of the beautiful creatures in earth.. the way it moves, the way they are finding a comfort zone in that small bowl..When one of my colleagues asked me to take care of her fish until she comes back from her native, I was so happy that I got something that I can taken care of on the long weekends..I was so excited, and very happily I told her to get the fish...And when she got it in the office, everyone was making fun of me telling that am taking it to my house to fry it and have..:) (beacuse they knew I like sea food)..and someone advised me that, if it is my bad time, it will not live for long..I didnt care..'coz I was very much excited to have 1 fish... but that fish was alone.. and I felt so sad that how can he/she live alone? And I decided, I will buy 1 more so that this will not be alone any more...
When we reached home, we changed the water, and kept in a good place.. My friend had given me instructions how to give food (After 24 hrs).. So next day morning when I got up, I saw this fish was looking at me and trying to jump. Then gave fish food..It had all the food and was so happy.. Even me and my roomie was also telling it is very beautiful and active.. Sunday we got 1 more fish, but it was a very small one compared to the existing one...but in front of this big fish, the small one seemed to be very scared and it was not moving and was staying at one side and not having food, so we got another bowl and kept it in that, but again it was not having food So I was a little worried.. Today she was coming back from her native, and I was so happy that her fish was sound and safe.. But all of a sudden, dont know what went wrong,where it went wrong, yesterday night around 9, the big fish was floating, but still alive.. It was dying.. I could not control my tears.. such a small creature, who was very happy in that small world, is going to die.. I called up my friend and told and she was also shocked.. I was feeling guilty, that some one had given itz pet to take care of, though I took care of it properly, I could not save that fish...Then I consoled myself that anyway I have 1 more fish, I will give it to her..And today I got it to the office.. every1 was teasing me and telling she got a small one.. But I had a very strange feeling that it is not going to survive any more.. Dont know why I felt so..I kept the bowl on my desk and got engaged in my work.. Suddenly I had a glance on the bowl and I saw the fish is not moving..but breathing...I thought it is sleeping, but its not....It is dying....in fact it is almost dead...I was asking myself, why it happened so? I was trying to find out reasons..that, it happened beacuse of change of place, change of water...but, another thing came to my mind was, my colleagues words.. if i have a bad time, it will not live long..And it became true...Am going through a bad time but why these innocent lives had taken it..may be itz a myth, but there is a coincidence also...
Death is one thing which is not in our hands.. I always feel...but when you see it in front of your eyes, it is painful..I may not be able to forget this incident in my life time.. 'coz am so shocked..
"All our knowledge merely helps us to die a more painful death than animals that know nothing".. It is very true..I was thinking whether this fish knew that it is gonna die...Did it know that it has only this much life? It wont see the world again?? And death is the one thing which you can expect at any time..How they feel when they realize that they are going to die?? Aww God... We have only one life and we have to live it...
So enjoy each and every moment and live the life.....!!!

Attitude

Well I always wonder what people meant by "ATTITUDE", when they say others have an attitude problem. I have seen my friends saying that "OH GOD, that lady/guy have big time attitude"...Yeah sometimes I also say. But I think if we judge others with their attitude, we need to analyze our self first... If the person whoz sitting next to you says something which you don’t like, we can not say that he/she has an attitude. It is wrong... the reverse can also happen. They may also think in the same way what we think about others... We need to learn how to empathize.. How to put our self in other's shoes and see from his/her prospective. In that case we will be able to understand them. Whenever I interview a candidate, the Line Manager used to say "please check whether he/she got an attitude problem”. And I had to reject people by analyzing so... And they were capable of doing the work in a better way. From that time I started thinking why are we avoiding people by saying that they have attitude..By anlaysing people what we do is, we are showing our attitude..

I just scribbled things which came to my mind.. Please post your comments so that I can make this blog more active... :)

A day

Everyday when I get up in the morning, I think about a lot of things..what all things to be done, and how can I make my day a bit more beautiful... Well, sometimes, I get bitter experience in a day... And will have to handle too many things which is some times impossible..But,now I like to run against the time..I feel success lies there...

Initially I used to think why people go behind networking.. But trust me, my experience taught me that networking is the best way to get connected with the people in different industries...

In a day I try to network with maximum people I can..So that I get a lot of work related infrmation..Since am from the recruitment industry, I strongly feel that, a consultant should have very good network...

And when I get back home, I have lot of things to discuss with my loved one..And before going to bed, I wil lmake sure that there is no work realted issues haunt me, so that I will get a perfect sleep and can look forward for a better tomorrow...