Doesn't this topic sounds funny? Who is not scared to death ? Ok..Let me ask you this,what is fear? I am still unable to find a definition for this, but I failed in that..Scared to fail? scared about the target? scared about responsibilities? Scared about Life? scared about death??
Ok, let me put in this way.. Everybody is scared about one or the other thing..If I tell you the truth, deep inside I have fear, about one or the other thing.. But, I always ask myself, why I need to be scared?? There is a dialogue in 3 Idiots movie, which talks about Fear, that really made me to think.. In fact that is a very true line.. Fear is nothing but a frantic state of mind.. If you are able to control your mind by telling ourself that "No need to worry", I guess we will be able to come out of that state of Mind.. For eg; we are scared to taste failure; my question is why?? If you are ready to taste success, why not failure? beacuse, we are scared.. From childhood we are aiming to be on the top..Parents comparing us with neighbor's kids, the pressure we used to get from them made us to fear...It made us to be away from failure.. But, if you have ever failed in anything, anytime, I am sure, he/she will the successful person in life..
I read a tagline of one of my friend " Everyone is ready to go to heaven, but nobody want to die!!"..Isn't it true? Why are we scared of death? If you have a life, the ultimate truth is you have to die.. I think, we need to expect death every moment.. What made to think this way is because, I feel, death can be any ways.. Probably, when you cross the road, or else, when you look down from the 10th floor of a building..Or else, a shocking news...It can be anything..It is very unpredictable... So expect it every moment..Then you will not feel scared.. And live every moment as if you are going to die next moment... Take life as it comes...Enjoy each and every moment.. Live your Life...
I read a tagline of one of my friend " Everyone is ready to go to heaven, but nobody want to die!!"..Isn't it true? Why are we scared of death? If you have a life, the ultimate truth is you have to die.. I think, we need to expect death every moment.. What made to think this way is because, I feel, death can be any ways.. Probably, when you cross the road, or else, when you look down from the 10th floor of a building..Or else, a shocking news...It can be anything..It is very unpredictable... So expect it every moment..Then you will not feel scared.. And live every moment as if you are going to die next moment... Take life as it comes...Enjoy each and every moment.. Live your Life...
Ah I have stumbled upon a subject I quite like. You might be spiritually inclined as Rabindranth Tagore says - '' Death is but another dawn'' or not so spiritually inclined like a Kafka who says '' I'm ready to meet my maker, the bacteria that are waiting for me in the soil''.. but in the end they all agree upon one thing and i sum it up with another quote from the movie Fight club - ''Your life is ending one minute at a time''. Like your Blog reads - Each day is an experience!
ReplyDeleteYep, sounds funny but something fishy at the end. The topic is too general to make a legitimate appraisal.
ReplyDeleteIf you are about to kill those who scare on death to self (thanatophobia), yes, it makes sense.
Otherwise, simply disagree with you in last lines. There are three cases in my school of thought: 1. Death to self - Yes, "It is very unpredictable... So expect it every moment..Then you will not feel scared.. And live every moment as if you are going to die next moment..."
2. Death to strangers - Of course, you will never scare about my death.
3. Death to our dearest - We must scare, we should scare to live the rest of life. No one could leave unaffected. This is the one and only matter I scare to have. I could not spare anyone those who with me other than myself.
Powerful post, keep writing...
Thank you, thoght provoking comments... I appreciate your time to go through my blog and put your comments.. :)
ReplyDeleteWhat we want is ultimate desire to be always on brighter side and being on high.But the day we start loving the darker side we will start living to the full.
ReplyDelete" every man on earth is like moon.no one wants to show the darker side"- Mark Twain
Keep writing...
nice.........but scared..scared..scared..
ReplyDeleteHey there! So assuming you've gotten over your fears, how come you haven't braved a new post?
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